Day: July 26, 2023

Popular Psychology

Grappling with PTSD: How Jiu Jitsu Can Aid Trauma Recovery

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Grappling with PTSD: How Jiu Jitsu Can Aid Trauma Recovery

Not too long ago I read a great book called “Transforming Trauma with Jiu-Jitsu” (I will link it at the end of this post). This book validated what I had already started to understand and that is that Jiu-Jitsu can help many people who struggle with various traumas.

This was only verified by the conversations I had on the mats with students who took up Jiu-Jitsu after being sexually assaulted, physically assaulted or were struggling to transition back into civilian life after years in the military.

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a debilitating mental health condition triggered by experiencing or witnessing a terrifying event. Symptoms may include flashbacks, nightmares, severe anxiety, and uncontrollable thoughts about the event. These symptoms are intense, long-lasting, and can significantly interfere with a person’s life. While the path to healing from trauma can be a long and challenging one, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) offers potential benefits that can assist in this journey.

The Neurobiology of PTSD

To understand how Jiu Jitsu can help in trauma recovery, it’s essential to first grasp the basic neurobiology of PTSD. Traumatic experiences can alter brain structure and function, particularly areas like the amygdala, prefrontal cortex, and hippocampus, which are involved in fear responses and memory. This alteration can result in the individual being in a constant state of “fight or flight,” even when there’s no immediate danger.

The Power of the Body in Trauma Recovery

Trauma-focused therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) are often used in PTSD treatment. However, there’s growing recognition of the role that body-based therapies can play in trauma recovery. This is where Jiu Jitsu enters the picture.

The ‘Roll’ of Jiu Jitsu in Trauma Recovery

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, with its combination of physical exertion, tactical strategy, and mindfulness, offers a unique approach to trauma recovery. Here’s how:

1. Restoring a Sense of Control

A sense of powerlessness is a common feeling in those with PTSD. Jiu Jitsu, by nature, is about gaining control – control over your body, your movements, and eventually, your opponent. By regularly practicing these maneuvers, an individual can regain a sense of control that extends beyond the mat, helping to counter the feelings of helplessness that trauma often induces.

2. Physical Exertion and Neurochemistry

Physical activity is known to stimulate the production of endorphins, neurotransmitters that act as natural mood elevators. Beyond the ‘feel-good’ factor, regular exercise can promote neurogenesis (creation of new neurons) and neural plasticity (the brain’s ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections). This can help counter some of the brain changes induced by trauma.

3. Mindfulness in Motion

Mindfulness, or being completely present in the moment, is a powerful tool for managing PTSD symptoms. Jiu Jitsu, with its requirement for focused attention on the body and its movements, acts as a form of moving mindfulness. This mindful state can provide temporary respite from intrusive thoughts and flashbacks.

4. Creating a Safe Space

Safety – physical, emotional, and psychological – is often compromised in individuals with PTSD. The respectful, disciplined environment of a Jiu Jitsu dojo can provide a sense of safety. Moreover, as the individual becomes more proficient in their skills, they develop a realistic sense of their physical capabilities, further enhancing feelings of safety and security.

5. The Power of a Supportive Community

Human connection and a supportive community are vital components of trauma recovery. A Jiu Jitsu dojo offers a supportive network of individuals working towards common goals. This camaraderie can help mitigate feelings of isolation that often accompany PTSD.

Jiu Jitsu: A Tool, Not a Cure

While the benefits of Jiu Jitsu for trauma survivors are promising, it’s important to remember that it isn’t a stand-alone treatment for PTSD. It should be used as a complementary approach, alongside traditional therapeutic interventions.

Moreover, the practice of Jiu Jitsu should be trauma-informed, meaning the instructors should be aware of the potential triggers and issues that trauma survivors might face. There should be a strong emphasis on consent, respect, and ensuring a safe training environment.

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, with its unique combination of physical, cognitive, and social elements, offers a compelling approach to body-based trauma recovery. But it’s more than just a recovery tool; it’s a journey towards self-improvement, self-awareness, and perhaps, healing. In the end, it’s not just about the techniques you learn, but the person you become in the process. As Carlos Gracie Sr., one of the founders of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, once said, “We cannot control the wind, but we can direct the sail.” With its potential benefits for trauma recovery, Jiu Jitsu might just help those grappling with PTSD direct their sails towards calmer waters.

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Phubbing: The Unseen Impact of Phone Snubbing on Our Social Lives

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Phubbing: The Unseen Impact of Phone Snubbing on Our Social Lives

In the digital era, where smartphones are as ubiquitous as the air we breathe, a new phenomenon has emerged—’phubbing.’ Coined from the words ‘phone’ and ‘snubbing,’ phubbing is the act of ignoring someone in a social setting by busying oneself with a phone or other mobile device. This seemingly innocent act might have deeper impacts on our social lives and mental health than we might think.

Understanding Phubbing

Phubbing is more than just checking a text or taking a quick call when you’re with someone. It’s the continuous use of a mobile device in the presence of others, leading to a sense of distraction, disengagement, or neglect. It’s that moment when a dinner conversation comes to a halt because someone decides to scroll through their social media feed, or when a one-on-one meeting turns into a monologue because the other person is engrossed in their phone.

The Social Implications of Phubbing

Most of us at some points have been guilty of phubbing. I know I have. My girlfriend is probably the queen of phubbing and I find it super annoying and rude, yet it’s become some common that I see it all the time with other people in other social situations that it’s almost become the norm to see people’s faces buried in their phone screens instead of making eye contact with those around them.

While phubbing might seem harmless—after all, everyone uses their phones, right?—its impact on our social interactions is profound.

Damage to Relationships

In interpersonal relationships, phubbing can create a sense of disconnect and dissatisfaction. It sends a non-verbal message that the phone is more interesting or important than the person present. This can result in feelings of neglect, leading to conflicts and strain in relationships. As I said, my girlfriend is extremely guilty of this, but she has also called me out when she’s caught me doing it as well so it’s something i have to work on too.

Impact on Communication

Effective communication involves not only verbal cues but also non-verbal ones such as facial expressions, body language, and eye contact. Phubbing disrupts this communication dynamic, leading to misunderstandings and a lack of depth in conversations.

Influence on Social Behavior

As phubbing becomes more commonplace, it subtly alters our social norms. The perceived acceptability of phone use in social settings increases, leading to a cycle where phubbing begets more phubbing. Have you ever been in a situation where you are trying to be engaging but everyone else seems to be more into their phones, so you pull your phone out too? I know I have.

The Psychological Impact of Phubbing

Beyond its social implications, phubbing can also have adverse effects on mental health.

Lower Self-Esteem

Being on the receiving end of phubbing can cause a decline in self-esteem. When someone prioritizes their phone over our company, it can make us question our self-worth and value in that relationship.

Increased Feelings of Loneliness

Even though one might be physically present with others, phubbing can cause feelings of isolation and loneliness. This feeling can be even more pronounced in group settings where multiple individuals engage in phubbing.

Heightened Stress and Anxiety

Witnessing others engage in social media or other online activities while phubbing can lead to increased feelings of stress and anxiety, particularly if it triggers comparisons or fear of missing out (FOMO).

Addressing the Issue of Phubbing

Phubbing is a modern-day challenge that requires contemporary solutions. Here are a few strategies to tackle phubbing:

Digital Detox

Periodically disconnecting from digital devices can help individuals become more present in their real-world interactions. This doesn’t mean abandoning technology altogether but using it consciously and sparingly in social settings.

Setting Clear Boundaries

Creating ‘phone-free’ zones or times, like during meals or meetings, can help reduce phubbing. Make these expectations clear to everyone involved to foster mutual respect and engagement.

Leading by Example

Sometimes, the best way to encourage others to put their phones down is to lead by example. Show your friends, family, and colleagues that you prioritize their company over your phone.

Conclusion: Building Conscious Connectivity

Phubbing, despite being a product of our digital age, is a social issue at its core. It brings to light the need for mindful use of technology, particularly in social settings. By becoming more conscious of our tech habits, we can combat phubbing and foster more meaningful, engaging interactions. After all, our phones are meant to connect us, not isolate us from the people in our immediate vicinity.