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Written by, Kate Oliver, MSW, LCSW-C

After last’s week’s posts, you have to know what this weeks affirmation is going to be about.  Delight, of course!  Now that you know how important delight is, let’s go about making the process of delighting in our children of all ages a habit.

Delight is not only for the young.  Even if your child is one that rolls her eyes at you when you say something nice, don’t worry, she is listening, keep delighting anyway!  Remember the last time someone pointed out something you did really well and seemed genuinely excited for you?  How did it feel?  I hope it was not too long ago that you experienced this, since it is important for us all to be delighted in.

As a mom or dad, sometimes you are not the only one delighting, sometimes your children are delighting in you as well.  My…

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Acting Out in School as a Way of Hiding a Learning Disability

There are variety of reasons kids act out in school, but they all usually act out to either hide something or as a way of expressing something they don’t know how to express in a more appropriate manner.

Earlier this week I sat in on an executive board meeting with various members of the Department of Juvenile Justice in the state of Florida and was reminded of Dexter Manley’s incredible story. 

Dexter Manley was an American professional football player who liked to give back to his inner-city community. Often he would go to various schools and speak to children about the importance of an education. Well one day after he had gotten through giving an inspiring speech to a group of elementary school kids, he was asked to read to them from an elementary level book. Dexter tried to get out of the situation, but he was cornered and eventually broke down crying. He had been hiding a secret that he was terrified would be exposed. He couldn’t read. Here was a man who had not only graduated from high school, but had also went to college and yet wasn’t able to read beyond a second grade reading level.

In elementary school Dexter realized in the second grade he had learning issues (poor auditory memory) and was often teased by other students. In return he started acting out in class, becoming a “troubled student” and even once pushed one of his teachers against the wall. He was passed on from class to class and grade to grade until he eventually graduated high school with only a second grade reading level. He had become a master at hiding his learning disability so well that he made it through college and much of his adult life without even his children and wife knowing he could barely read or write, but it all started in elementary school where he learned that acting out in class got him out of having to reveal that he was having trouble reading, writing or understanding material his peers were grasping. 

That got me to thinking about the many “troubled” teens I work with and I noticed before that most of them also had failing grades and very poor reading and writing skills, but I had been under the impression that it was mostly due to their lack of participation in class, lack of concentration, attention and motivation. It wasn’t until recently that I started realizing that many of them act out to hide the fact that they are suffering from one learning disability or the other. Now when I am referred a kid by a teacher or guidance counselor for “behavior issues” I also check their academics and their grades usually are very poor. Eventually I usually learn that their reading and writing skills are also extremely poor and I say “eventually” because it is usually hard to get them to write or read anything, they are usually master manipulators and will either change the subject, get angry or deviant. One kid in particular walked around with a stack of books, about five books checked out from the library in her arms at all times. I always thought she was an avid reader, but one day when I called her in my office and she came with her books, I asked her about each book and realized she hadn’t read any of them. When I tried to coach her into reading one to me, she struggled through a line or two and then became very angry and deviant. She stopped reading. She could barely read and she was a 17 year old high school junior.

Although I believe the practice of just passing troubled kids through school to get rid of them is less common today in the age of standardized testing, I am all too aware of many recent and not so recent high school graduates who read and write on elementary grade levels and seem to have slipped through the cracks of our educational system. Often times teachers send me kids they have kicked out of their class for “acting out”, and these kids are usually failing that class and have learned very quickly that if they act out, they will either get left alone or removed from the situation they don’t want to be in anyway. Up until recently, the real situation wasn’t getting dealt with as I had ignored the possible learning issues going on and went straight to trying to solve the cognitive and behavioral problems as I’ve been trained to do. 

Without help, these kids who manage to skate through high school will find that functioning in the real world is much harder. Many of the manipulation, distracting and defense mechanisms that worked in high school will not work in society and may actually get them hurt, arrested or worse. Unlike Dexter Manley who was a star football player and had the athletic talent and financial resources to hide his issues (at least for awhile), most of these young people will be unable to get or keep jobs and will most likely turn to drugs, alcohol, and criminal activities as ways of trying to cope. Ignoring the problem now will only cost everyone more later when these young people are carjacking us, or we are using our tax payers money to feed them in jail.  

If you have or are a parent of a child with a learning disability I would love to hear from you.

If you are a parent and have a child that is acting out and also struggling in school, it would be a good idea to have him or her tested for a learning disability. I think often learning disabilities go undiagnosed because parents are unwilling to have their kids tested. No one wants to have a child with a learning disability, but having that disability identified and attended to will allow that child to learn how to adjust and succeed. Not giving your child that opportunity out of fear of labeling could be detrimental to his/her future.

To read more about Dexter Manley you can click on this link http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1077/is_n12_v44/ai_8010811/?tag=content;col1

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Written by, Kate Oliver, MSW, LCSW-C

The day-to-day tasks that come with being a parent can make it difficult sometimes to stand back and see the forest for the trees.  With all the chauffering, making of meals, time keeping, study supporting, and the coaching/ disciplining we can get into a rut and forget something important… we forget about creative solutions.  Creative solutions are all around us.

I remember when my husband and I figured out that dates can happen during the day!  We decided that instead of going out in the evening when we are already tired and ready to crawl into bed, we would get the babysitter for the day.  That way we can go get lunch, when the restaurants are nearly empty, and see a movie or take a walk together, then come home and be there to put the girls to bed.  We enjoy each other so much when we are not tired.

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The Symbiotic Relationship of Counseling and Unconditional Positive Regard

As another school year ends I look back at all the clients I’ve worked with during the school year and a good majority have made major changes. I’ve seen teens who could barely stay in school for a month because of getting suspended, end up having zero discipline issues for the last five months or more. I’ve seen kids with alcohol and marijuana problems minimize and some totally quit using and even more importantly I’ve seen kids I thought would take years to make positive gains make dramatic changes over a few months. 

I give all my clients surveys before discharging them so that they can voice how I have helped them or didn’t help them so that I could better myself in the future and this year I became emotional as I read over some of their responses. Some kids wrote things such as

  • “You helped me have a better relationship with my mother”
  • “You helped me realize that killing myself isn’t the answer”
  • “You helped me learn to love myself”
  • “You helped me learn how to get along with my baby’s father and take better care of my baby”
  • “I’ve learned to control my anger and how to express my emotions”
  • “You helped me learn how to get along with my baby’s mother and get more into my son’s life”
  • “You helped me realize how valuable my life is and how stupid and irresponsible ending it would be”
  • “I don’t smoke or drink any more and started liking myself”

 

This comments really touched me and made me feel blessed to have had such an impact on these kids and they have had major impacts on me as well. I’ve learned just as much about them about patience and the importance of bringing the family into counseling whenever possible and appropriate. I look back and try to reflect on all the things and activities I’ve done with these kids and while I’ve used a lot of counseling techniques, I think the one thing that made the biggest impact is the unconditional positive regard I’ve showed these kids. Unconditional positive regard is accepting someone as they are and not judging them and I showed these kids throughout the year that I liked and accepting them despite anything they did or said. Sure they often did things I didn’t approve of, but I always let them know that it was the act that I disapproved of and not them. A lot of these kids have never had anyone they could just talk to who accepted and didn’t judge them and I think building on that relationship overtime had the greatest impact.

A lot of times I hear interns and new counselors saying that they are afraid that they are afraid that they won’t always know what to say and I always tell them that it’s okay, sometimes I don’t know what to say and so I say nothing, I just listen and show unconditional positive regard and empathy instead of not being present in the situation because I am busy searching for the right thing to say when there likely isn’t. In a good counseling relationship it is symbiotic. I learn from them and they learn from me and that is one of the things I love best about being a counselor. I learn from even the most difficult of clients and hopefully they learn from me as well. 

Trying to Understand Teenagers Part I: Psychosocial Development

According to Erik Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development, during the ages of 12 to 18, teenagers are mostly focused on the questions “Who am I?” and “What do I believe and stand for?”

Identity versus confusion is thought to be the psychosocial crisis that teens are dealing with and many of us will probably agree that the teen years are full of trying out different roles and groups of friends to see where we fit in. This is natural and healthy as it helps us develop a sense of self, independence, a sense of belonging and a sense of individualism. If dealt with in an unhealthy way, this stage leads to feelings of confusion, and insecurity about themselves and where they fit into the world. At its worst it can lead to social and psychological impairments such as personality disorders, mood disorders, eating disorders and substance abuse.

Social relationships become the outmost important things to teenagers, which again is natural because humans are social beings and we need to learn how to get along with others and work together, but often times teens will put such great importance into their social relationships that everything else takes a back seat including familial relationships and academics. I see teens all the time whose biggest concern to them is their three month old relationship and not their failing grades and trying to get them to understand what should be important to them is more likely to give me gray hairs than it is to change thier point of view. Teens often sacrifice their relationship with parents to fulfill their needs for social relationships and usually don’t quite understand why we adults won’t just leave them alone to do what they want to do. A teenage girl I work with in individual and family counseling often cries to me that she just wants her mom to leave her alone and stop being worried about her. This young girl has been brought home at two in the morning by the police on a school night when her mom thought she was asleep, has been caught drinking and smoking marijuana and is failing school, yet she wants her mom to just let her “live my life”. This young girl is currently suspended from school after being caught having sexual contact with a boy in a restroom on campus.

It is natural for teens to try on different roles, friends, activities and behaviors to see what fits them and what doesn’t. This at times can be scary for those of us who watch the teens we know and love morph into and out of different roles and characters on their quest of finding their own identity and sense of direction.

With healthy and appropriate encouragement, reinforcement and support during this stage, teens will emerge with a strong sense of who they are, a feeling of independence, confidence and control over their lives. Those who come out of this stage unsure of who they are, what they want and what they believe are at a higher risk of developing the psychological impairments mentioned above as well as continue to feel insecure and confused about who they are into their adult years.

Saving the Lives of Butterflies: Part 2

It’s been a few months since I first introduced The Butterfly Project to the high school kids I work with (if you haven’t already, you can check out my post entitled “Saving the Lives of Butterflies”). Well I’m happy to report that over the past two weeks I’ve had a number of them come up to me and show me the butterflies that they drew on themselves in efforts to refrain from cutting themselves! I was so happy to see one or two of them do this, but was overwhelmed to see nearly all of the ones who have issues with self-injury trying this technique and so far it appears to be helping! Some of them even name their butterflies and they have been encouraging each other. It’s a small step, but I am so thrilled by it’s success so far that I just had to share some of the pictures!

With summer coming up, I am really worried about all of the teens I work with at the high school, especially the ones who self-injure, but I am really hoping that everything I’ve taught them over the summer, including cognitive behavioral interventions, emotional self regulation strategies and now the Butterfly Project, will help them make it through whatever they encounter and that they will emerge stronger and more confident. I will also be worried about the ones who use drugs, the ones who make irrational decisions, the ones with anger issues and the ones with severe depression and anxiety. Pretty much, I’ll be worried about all of them, but I have to hope and trust that I’ve helped them all enough or at least did my part in preparing them to better handle life.

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Written by, Kate Oliver, MSW, LCSW-C

Get ready to laugh and tell me I’m wrong!  I have heard many versions of this affirmation but the person I got it from is the mother of affirmations herself, Louise Hay.  This week’s affirmation is:

Everything is happening at just the right time.

I know you do not believe me but give me a minute to talk you through it.  I know it feels like things happen too slow, too fast, or at just the wrong time!  This affirmation requires a little faith that there is a plan for us.  Even if you are not a believer in a higher power, doesn’t it just make life simpler to believe that everything is happening at just the right time?  I use this affirmation when I am running late and, I’m happy to tell you that when I use it, and believe it, everything does…

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On Rett Syndrome

An Introduction to Rett Syndrome

 What separates Rett syndrome from the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders is that it almost exclusively affects girls, whereas Autistic Disorder affects boys at a much higher rate than girls.

Worldwide Rett Syndrome affects 1 in every 10,000 to 15,000 females of all races and ethnicity. Prenatal testing is possible for families who have had a child born with Rett, but since the chances of developing Rett is so low, the chances of a family having two children born with Rett is less than 1%. Most boys born with the genes thought to be responsible for Rett often die shortly after birth. Because Rett syndrome is thought to be caused by a mutation to the X chromosome, girls are thought to be more able to compensate for the mutation because they have two X chromosomes where boys only have one and aren’t able to compensate.

In Rett Syndrome, similar to Asperger’s, there is normal early development and then a slowing of development, distinctive hand movements, lack of purposeful use of hands, and slowed head and brain growth. Problems walking, seizures and intellectual disability are usually also present. This disorder was first described by Dr. Andreas Rett, an Austrian physician in 1966, but it wasn’t until later in 1983 that it was recognized as a disorder after an article about it was written by Swedish researcher Dr. Bengt Hagbeg.

Like all of the Pervasive Developmental Disorders, the severity of symptoms in Rett varies from child to child, but they all start with relatively normal development, although loss of muscle tone (hypotonia), jerkiness in limb movements and difficulty feeding are often noticeable even in infancy. Gradually more apparent physical and mental symptoms become apparent such as the inability to talk and loss of purposefully movement of hands which is followed by compulsive hand movements such as wringing and washing.  Other symptoms such as problems walking, crawling and lack of eye contact may also be early signs. This period of regression is often sudden. The inability to perform motor functions (Apraxia) is one of the most severe disabilities of Rett syndrome, it effects body movement, eye gaze and speech.

Early stages of Rett syndrome often resemble Autistic disorder or one of the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders.  Some symptoms may also include walking on toes, awkward gait, difficulty chewing, teeth grinding, slowed growth, sleep problems, breathing problems, air swallowing, cognitive disabilities and apnea (holding breath)..

Diagnosis

Rett is typically diagnosed by a developmental pediatrician, pediatric neurologist or clinical neurologist using many of the same neurological, physical and psychological assessments used to diagnose the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders with the inclusion of genetic testing to look for the MECP2 mutation on the child’s X chromosome.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders also has these criteria for diagnosing Rett Disorder.

  • All of the following:
    • apparently normal prenatal and perinatal development
    • apparently normal psychomotor development through the first 5 months after birth
    • normal head circumference at birth
  • Onset of all of the following after the period of normal development:
    • deceleration of head growth between ages 5 and 48 months
    • loss of previously acquired purposeful hand skills between ages 5 and 30 months with the subsequent development of stereotyped hand movements (i.e., hand-wringing or hand washing)
    • loss of social engagement early in the course (although often social interaction develops later)
    • appearance of poorly coordinated gait or trunk movements
    • severely impaired expressive and receptive language development with severe psychomotor retardation

Causes

According to research, nearly all cases of Rett syndrome are due to a mutation in the metyl CpG binding protein 2 (MECP2) gene. The gene was discovered in 1999 and controls many other genes. It may also be responsible for some of the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders. This gene is needed for brain development and helps other genes increase or decrease their own unique expressions and proteins. This genes malfunction causes other genes to become abnormal. The puzzling thing is, not everyone with MECP2 mutation has Rett syndrome, so other genetic mutations are also thought to be responsible and research is ongoing. Rett syndrome is not thought to be genetic. Only about 1% of Rett syndrome cases are thought to be inherited, which means that in the overwhelming majority of cases, the gene mutations are random.

Treatment

Just like all the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders, there is no cure for Rett Syndrome and treatment is pretty similar including medication and therapy to help control and minimize many of the disabling features of Rett syndrome.

Although Rett syndrome can be very disabling, many people with Rett live to be in their 40’s and 50’s and perhaps even longer . 

Resources

International Rett Syndrome Foundation: www.rettsyndrome.org

National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD): www.nichd.nih.gov

Office of Rare Diseases: www.rarediseases.info.nih.gov

Rett Syndrome Research Trust: www.rsrt.org

On Autistic Disorder

In my years in the field of mental health, I’ve had the privilege to work briefly with children who had Autistic Disorder. That brief time gave me a tremendous amount of respect for these children, those who work with them regularly as well as the parents who care for them around the clock. The degree of impairment in each child was sometimes drastically different. Some didn’t move from the same spot all day, staring out into space and rocking back and forth while others were very mobile and verbal (even if I couldn’t understand a word they were saying). Most of them were very rigid however in appearance, behavior and psychomotor activity.

If you haven’t done so already, you may want to read the post I wrote on Pervasive Developmental Disorders in order to get a better understanding of Autistic Disorder and all of the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders under the Autism Spectrum.

Autistic Disorder shares a lot in common with all the previously discussed Pervasive Developmental Disorders and is sometimes referred to as early infantile autism or childhood autism. To add to the confusion of labeling, some professionals use Autistic Disorder to describe all five of the pervasive developmental disorders (Autistic Disorder, Rett’s Disorder, Childhood Disintegrative Disorder, Asperger’s disorder, Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified) under the Autistic spectrum.

Brief Introduction to Autistic Disorder

Autistic Disorder is four times more common in boys than in girls. Children with Autistic Disorder have a moderate to severe range of communication, behavior problems and socialization abilities. Many of them also have mental retardation. It is also thought to be high genetic.

Like all of the other Pervasive Developmental Disorders, parents of children with Autistic Disorder normally notice signs within the first two to three years of life. They usually develop gradually, but sometimes the child will develop normally at first and then regress.

Early behavioral and cognitive interventions are essential in helping children with Autistic Disorder learn to improve their skills of self-care, communication and socialization. Most children with the disorder will never live independently as adults and while there is no cure, they have been reported cases of children who have appeared to recover from it.

Diagnostic Criteria for Autistic Disorder

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders IV (DSM-IV) uses these criteria to aid in the diagnosis of Autistic Disorder.

  1. Six or more items from (1), (2), and (3), with at least two from (1), and one each from (2) and (3):
      1. qualitative impairment in social interaction, as manifested by at least two of the following:
        1. marked impairment in the use of multiple nonverbal behaviors such as eye-to-eye gaze, facial expression, body postures, and gestures to regulate social interaction
        2. failure to develop peer relationships appropriate to developmental level
        3. a lack of spontaneous seeking to share enjoyment, interests, or achievements with other people (e.g., by a lack of showing, bringing, or pointing out objects of interest)
        4. lack of social or emotional reciprocity
    1. qualitative impairments in communication as manifested by at least one of the following:
      1. delay in, or total lack of, the development of spoken language (not accompanied by an attempt to compensate through alternative modes of communication such as gesture or mime)
      2. in individuals with adequate speech, marked impairment in the ability to initiate or sustain a conversation with others
      3. stereotyped and repetitive use of language or idiosyncratic language
      4. lack of varied, spontaneous make-believe play or social imitative play appropriate to developmental level
    1. restricted repetitive and stereotyped patterns of behavior, interests, and activities, as manifested by at least one of the following:
      1. encompassing preoccupation with one or more stereotyped and restricted patterns of interest that is abnormal either in intensity or focus
      2. apparently inflexible adherence to specific, nonfunctional routines or rituals
      3. stereotyped and repetitive motor manners (e.g., hand or finger flapping or twisting, or complex whole-body movements)
      4. persistent preoccupation with parts of objects
  2. Delays or abnormal functioning in at least one of the following areas, with onset prior to age 3 years: (1) social interaction, (2) language as used in social communication, or (3) symbolic or imaginative play.
  3. The disturbance is not better accounted for by Rett’s Disorder or Childhood Disintegrative Disorder.

For more information visit http://www.autismspeaks.org

Pervasive Developmental Disorders

Pervasive Developmental Disorders (PDD) are also known as Autistic Spectrum Disorders. They include a group of five neurological disorders characterized by developmental delays of basic functions such as the ability to communicate, understand language, and socialize with others including peers and family. The five developmental disorders are:

  • Autistic Disorder
  • Rett’s Disorder
  • Childhood Disintegrative Disorder
  • Asperger’s Disorder
  • Pervasive Developmental Disorders Not Otherwise Specified

Many parents are often confused by the term Pervasive Developmental Disorders when their child is diagnosed. Often this is because a lot of doctors are hesitant to diagnose very young children with a specific PDD, but PDD is not a true diagnosis, but a category that includes all five of the disorders listed above. The official diagnosis in this case should be Pervasive Developmental Disorders Not Otherwise Specified (PDDNOS) which simple means that there is a pervasive developmental disorder present, but the doctor has yet to narrow down which exact disorder it is.

I could write a very long post that tried to cover all of the PDDs, but that would be very long and perhaps confusing, so what I am going to do is post one at a time over the next few days. To understand each PDD it is good to have a definition of the overall disorder and so we will start with PDDNOS.

Pervasive Developmental Disorders Not Otherwise Specified

All PDDs are neurological disorders that are usually evident by the time the child is three years old. They generally have trouble playing with their peers, socializing and relating to others. They also often have stereotyped behavior, interest and activities, inappropriate fascination with objects and often don’t like changes, even small ones. One parent vented her frustration to me saying that it felt like her child was always rejecting her.

Children with PDDNOS either do not fully meet the criteria of the other PDDs or do not have the degree of impairment usually considered suitable to fulfill the diagnosis of the other four disorders. According to the Diagnosis and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders IV (DSM-IV), this diagnosis should be used “when there is a severe and pervasive impairment in the development of social interaction or verbal and nonverbal communication skills, or when stereotyped behavior, interests, and activities are present, but the criteria are not met for a specific Pervasive Developmental Disorder, Schizophrenia, Schizotypal Personality Disorder, or Avoidant Personality Disorder” (American Psychiatric Association).

In general, children are usually diagnosed with PDDNOS when they have behaviors that are seen in Autism, but doesn’t meet the full diagnostic criteria.

Part of the confusion with PDDs is that the DSM-IV should be used as a guideline for diagnosing PDDS. Many doctors use it as a checklist. There are no clear guidelines for measure severity of symptoms which cause the lines between Autism and PDDNOS to become blurred. Confusion is also added in the fact that some doctors feel that Autistic Disorder only covers those who show extreme symptoms that meet every single criteria for it, while other doctors are comfortable using Autistic Disorder to define those with a broad range of symptoms related to language and social skills. Therefore, it is not uncommon for an individual to be diagnosed by one doctor as having Autistic Disorder and by another as having PDDNOS. There is growing evidence that PDDNOS and Autistic Disorder aren’t actually separate disorders, but are on a continuum which is why the term Autistic Spectrum Disorders is now frequently used to refer to PDDs. Multisystem Developmental Disorders is another term thrown around seldomly, but it is the same as PDDNOS and Autistic Spectrum Disorder.

Causes of PDDNOS

Studies that include behavioral and biological studies all suggest that PDDNOS is caused by neurological abnormalities (problems with the nervous system). However, no specific cause is known. There’s been controversy about childhood vaccinations being responsible for PDDNOS, but no clear evidence or studies have been able to show consistent evidence supporting that.

Symptoms/Signs of PDDNOS

These are some of the symptoms and signs of PDDNOS. Since it is a spectrum disorder, not all children will show the same symptoms, all of the symptoms or have the same intensity of symptoms as other children with PDDNOS.

  • Impairment in Nonverbal Communication
  • Impairment in Understanding Speech
  • Impairment in Speech Development
  • Abnormal Attachments and Behaviors
  • Unusual Responses to Sensory Experiences
  • Disturbance of Movement
  • Resistance to Change
  • Intellectual and Cognitive Deficits

They may also have associated features such as emotional expressions that are flat, excessive or inappropriate to the situation. They may scream, cry or laugh at any time for no apparent reason. They may not be afraid of real dangers such as falling or getting hit by a car, yet be terrified by a specific doll or stuffed animal.

Diagnosis

The DSM-IV is only one tool used to help diagnose PDDNOS. Medical assessments, occupational assessments (used to determine how the child’s different senses work together), interviews with the child’s parents, teachers, behavioral rating scales, psychological assessments, educational assessments and direct behavioral observations are some of the many other tools used to help diagnose PDDNOS. There are no specific test such as blood tests, or x-ray exams that can determine if a child has PDDNOS or not.

Treatments

Treatments for PDDNOS are usually the same used to treat all PDDs, but no one treatment will help all children and often they need to be individualized. Common treatments include:

  • behavior modification
  • structured educational approaches
  • medications
  • speech therapy
  • occupational therapy
  • counseling
  • family counseling
  • psychological treatment
  • facilitated communication
  • Auditory Integrative Therapy
  • Sensory Integrative Therapy
  • Dietary Therapies
The aim is typically to promote more acceptable and appropriate social and communication behavior as well as to minimize negative behaviors such as repetitive behaviors, self-injury, hyperactivity and aggression.

It is also important for parents of children with PDDNOS or any PDD (just like parents of children with any other disorder) to seek out help in the form of parent support groups in order to educate, remember that they are not alone and also to replenish themselves.

I hope that this post on PDDNOS was helpful. I realized halfway through writing this how tough it was going to be to try to cover PDDNOS in one post, partway through I was like, “What was I thinking” but hopefully I’ve laid out a decent basis to start discussing the other four disorders starting with Autistic Disorder tomorrow.

For those of you who want more information I’ve included the names, contact information and web addresses of some organizations below.

Resources

Autism Coalition
http://www.autismcoalition.com

Autism Patient Center
http://www.patientcenters.com/autism


Autism-PDD Resources Network
http://www.autism-pdd.net


Division TEACCH: http://www.teacch.com


Indiana Resource Center for Autism
http://www.iidc.indiana.edu/irca


National Institute of Child Health and
Human Development
http://www.nichd.nih.gov/publications/
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Asperger Syndrome Coalition of the United States, Inc. (ASCU.S.)
2020 Pennsylvania Ave., NW, Box 771, Washington, DC 20006
Telephone: 1-866-427-7747
Web: http://www.asperger.org
 
Autism Society of America
7910 Woodmont Avenue, Suite 300
Bethesda, MD 20814
Telephone: 1-800-328-8476
Web: http://www.autismsociety.org

International Rett Syndrome
Association, 9121 Piscataway Road,
Clinton, MD 20735. Telephone:
1-800-818-RETT; (301) 856-3334.
Web: http://www.rettsyndrome.org