Rebirth

This Easter weekend for those who observe it as a time of renewals and new beginnings. It’s a great time to think of beginning anew.

Have you ever felt like you wanted to start over, like you wished you could be reborn? It’s a common feeling that many people experience at some point in their lives. Whether it’s because of past mistakes, difficult circumstances, or just a desire for change, the idea of being reborn can be incredibly appealing.

When I was younger, I remember every weekend thinking that next week is a new beginning. I can start over, be a better person and move on from whatever things were bothering me the week before. As I got older, sometimes I forget that every day is an opportunity to start over in some way. An opportunity to be reborn.

But what does it really mean to be reborn, and is it even possible?

From a psychological perspective, being reborn could be seen as a process of personal transformation. It involves letting go of old patterns and beliefs that no longer serve us and embracing new ways of thinking and behaving.

One way to facilitate this transformation is through the process of introspection. By reflecting on our past experiences and examining our thoughts and behaviors, we can gain insight into the underlying patterns that are holding us back. This self-awareness can help us identify areas where we need to change and grow.

Another key aspect of being reborn is the willingness to take risks and try new things. Change can be scary, and it’s easy to fall back into old habits and ways of thinking. But by embracing new experiences and stepping outside of our comfort zones, we can open ourselves up to new possibilities and opportunities for growth.

Of course, being reborn is not a one-time event. Personal transformation is an ongoing process that requires continued effort and commitment. It’s important to be patient with ourselves and to recognize that change takes time.

Here are some ways to use Easter to look at starting over:

  1. Let go of the past: Starting over often involves letting go of the past. Easter is a time of forgiveness and renewal, which makes it a great opportunity to release any negative emotions or grudges that may be holding you back. Consider reflecting on what you need to let go of in order to move forward.
  2. Focus on new opportunities: Easter is a time of hope and new beginnings, which can help you shift your focus towards new opportunities. Think about what you want to achieve in the future and set goals for yourself. Use Easter as a time to create a plan for reaching those goals.
  3. Surround yourself with support: Starting over can be difficult, so it’s important to have support from others. Surround yourself with people who encourage and support you in your journey. This could be family members, friends, or a support group.
  4. Practice self-care: Starting over can be stressful, so it’s important to take care of yourself. Make time for activities that you enjoy and that help you relax, such as exercise, meditation, or reading. Practice self-compassion and be patient with yourself as you navigate this new beginning.

So while we may not be able to literally be reborn, we can still embrace the idea of personal transformation and growth. By letting go of the past, being open to new experiences, and committing to ongoing self-improvement, we can create a brighter, more fulfilling future for ourselves.

Letting the Dead Die this Easter Sunday

Holding on to Dead Stuff

One of the reasons we get cheated out of the most our lives can be is because we hold on to too much dead stuff. Dead relationships, dead jobs and dead dreams.

This Easter, the resurrection, no matter what religion (or no religion) you believe in, can have significant meaning for all of us. Perhaps you are married to something that is dead or holding on to a dream that is dead. Too many of us are holding on to death.

Many of us have dreams that need to die. It’s not the most pleasant thought, but holding on to a dream that will never come to fruition holds us back from realizing the dreams that can and have already come true. It can’t happen until you let that dream die.

A new great relationship can’t happen until you let your old relationship die. You’re tied to something dead.

Your dream job might be right around the corner, but it’s hard if not impossible to get to it if you are holding on to your dead job.

What’s in Your Life that Needs to Die?

This Easter, and periodically afterwards, I want you to examine what is it in your life that needs to die. Maybe it’s a fantasy. Maybe you’re holding out for the perfect person and you’re missing so many other terrific people because you won’t let that fantasy die. This Easter is all about resurrection. Let what is dead go so that you can make room in your life for everything that is waiting to be raised.

Easter represents the the new life we all can find by living in the truth. Let what needs to die die so that this Easter Sunday, and everyday forward, you can be free to be all you were meant and born to be.